RACHEL: I was 16 and had been dating my boyfriend for a week when I gave my first hand-job. We were cuddling in his mum’s bed when he put my hand down his pants. I wanted to do it because I sort of felt ready to start doing stuff like that. It came naturally and it only took 10 minutes for him to come. I felt a lot closer to him and it was nice knowing I’d made him happy. He made a bit of a mess of the sheets mind you.
EMMA: I was also 16 and camping with my boyfriend when I first tried it. We were sharing a tent and were just kissing and cuddling and then he asked me if I’d mind giving him a tug. He had to show me what to do but I soon got the hang of it. It probably took just over 10 minutes for him to cum and he shot it quite a way, it was hanging off the roof of the tent. I enjoyed it but it was a bit embarrassing as well.
RACHEL: I gave my first blow-job to my boyfriend when we were on his sofa watching the movie Ghost. We’d been getting a bit touchy feely all night and it wasn’t a big surprise when he asked me if I’d go down on him. I didn’t enjoy it much at all, I didn’t know what I was doing and it was difficult to get the hang of too. After five minutes he told me he was going to come so I stopped and he came in a hankie. There’s no way I wanted him to come in my mouth.
EMMA: I was quite nervous about giving my first blow-job. I was 16 and really wanted to do it, and when I told my boyfriend he was keen for me to do it as well. It only took 15 minutes and when he came I swallowed because I thought spitting it out would completely ruin the moment for him.
RACHEL: I lost my virginity when I was 16 to my first boyfriend. We’d been talking about it for weeks so it was no surprise we actually did it. He wasn’t a virgin and that made it a lot better because it took the pressure off me a bit. He made it really nice for me and it didn’t hurt nearly as much as I’d been told it would. It only lasted 10 minutes but I wouldn’t change a bit of it. I’m pleased it was with someone I really liked because it meant something, it was special.
EMMA: Mine was also with my first boyfriend when I was 16. We hadn’t planned it but we’d been going out a few months and our relationship had just reached that stage. His parents were out so we had the house to ourselves and it just seemed right. We did it in his bed and although it wasn’t his first time he finished in five minutes. It was a bit of a non-event really and if I could turn the clock back I’d have waited a bit longer.
FIRST HUGE WILLY
RACHEL: I went out with a guy when I was 17 who had a massive todger. It was about nine inches long and when he got undressed in front of me for the first time I was like ‘Oh sh*t!’ I knew it was going to hurt and it certainly did for the first 10 or 15 minutes. Just when I thought it was hopeless it turned out really good. It ended up being a great night. I don’t think size matters too much as long as they’re not tiny.
EMMA: I didn’t have a big one until I was 17 with a lad I had a one-night stand with and it must have been at least eight inches. He gave me no warning and I was shocked and a bit scared when I first saw it. The sex was just painful and I didn’t enjoy it at all, it was just too big and that made it uncomfortable. I’d never want a willy that size again, it shattered the myth that bigger is better, it definitely isn’t!
FIRST TIME BUM FUN
RACHEL: I went to Magaluf this summer with my mates and when I came back I was dying to see my boyfriend because I hadn’t had sex for about 10 days. I suggested we try anal that night so that I could experience it but it was awful and after about five minutes we went back to having normal sex. I haven’t done it since and don’t think I will do either.
EMMA: I’m always up for trying new things so when my boyfriend suggested it a couple of months ago I was up for it. It felt a bit strange at first but then it became really good and I realised I’d been missing out. It’s not as good as normal sex but it’s still pretty good. The more you do it the better it gets too.
FIRST SEX TOY
RACHEL: My first sex toy was a Bullet vibrator. I bought it about a year ago because I’d heard they can be good if you to use it with your boyfriend. When we used it for the first time it was amazing, we used it during sex and it helped me have some really intense orgasms. I wouldn’t use it on my own because it would feel a bit weird but using it with your man during sex is amazing.
EMMA: My first toy was a Rampant Rabbit. My boyfriend bought it for me last month because we don’t live near each other and he was worried I was going to get lonely. I used it a couple of days ago for the first time and I was quite impressed, it gave me a couple of decent orgasms and it didn’t take long at all either. But I still don’t think it’s as good as a real willy though.
FIRST TIME DRESSING UP
RACHEL: Earlier this year I went to a friend’s birthday party dressed as Wonderwoman. It was a really skin-tight outfit and I knew I looked really sexy in it. So after the party I went to my boyfriend’s house as a surprise. He couldn’t believe his eyes and whisked me straight into the bedroom. The sex was brilliant, I think he fancied me more than normal and put loads of effort in. Dressing up is great fun.
EMMA: I dressed up last month for my boyfriend. We’d had a big argument and made up so it was only right we had make-up sex. I went round to his house wearing a big coat with nothing but sexy lingerie on underneath. He had his mates round but when he saw me he couldn’t get rid of them fast enough. And he was really appreciative of what I was wearing and I had the best foreplay of my life. The sex wasn’t half bad too! Dressing up really turns your man on so it’s worth doing.
FIRST TIME OUTSIDE
RACHEL: I had sex on the back seat of my boyfriend’s Mini Cooper when I was 17. We’d been on a date to the cinema and he was giving me a lift home when he pulled over into a car park. It was a real adrenaline rush having sex somewhere so public. It was all going well until we spotted a dog walker giving us dirty looks! We abandoned it and went home.
EMMA: My first time outside was in my boyfriend’s car too. I was 18 and we were both really horny but our parents were at home so we couldn’t go back to either place. We went for a drive and found this quiet country lane. I loved it because it felt naughty and you learn loads of new sex positions because of the lack of room in a car too. Since then I’ve done it in a swimming pool. Doing it outside is fun.